Tuesday, March 28, 2023

INTERVIEW with KATHLEEN PENDOLEY


I want to thank Kathleen Pendoley for taking the time for this interview!


BIO:

Kathleen spends her days toggling between writing and anything active: walking in the woods with her pups, kayaking, bike riding, and cross-country skiing—weather permitting. 

A to-the-marrow New Englander, shes obsessed with cake, yoga, and self-actualization. Her favorite place to connect with readers is on Facebook.


When and how did you know you wanted to be a writer?

One of my earliest memories is pleading with my mother to read a story repeatedly in one sitting. Im lucky because my parents were avid readers, so I didnt have to beg too hard, even though she had four other children and a household to run.

Id memorize the words, hold onto the book after she left me alone, and read.” I knew words were separated by a narrow space, and Id go through the book with laser focus, one word at a time, and effectively taught myself how letters became words, which turned into sentences that became paragraphs. Using that childhood experience, I came into the world fascinated with language, and writing seemed a guarantee.


Did you have any influencing writers growing up?

Beverly Cleary, Gertrude Chandler Warner, Judy Bloom, V. C. Andrews, and Stephen King.


Are any of your characters based on people in real life?

Likely they’re an amalgam of people I’ve met, seen, and known, and they come out onto paper the way my subconscious brain has shuffled them.


Where do you draw your book inspirations from?

As an intractable introvert, people-watching is innate and helps you get a real sense of how they tick. 

Bringing the human back into “human being” is something I do with every story, what I coined Romance Rooted in Reality. The culture pushes us to become other than what we are, and Id like to offer permission to appreciate our authentic selves. 

Nature has been a friend that gives endlessly. Spending time in the woods, at the beach, and on mountaintops gives me countless ideas. I also travel, granted, less than Id like, but seeing the world from a different vantage point is an intense way to collect knowledge and information.


Do you use have a basic outline when starting a new story or do you let the characters lead the way?

Both. When I begin, I know the critical parts of the story, but I always leave room for those hard turns the character invariably takes. Thats one of my favorite parts. Ill be alone, typing away, and blurt, Thats what you want to do?” or This is who you are?” Fun.


When you are picturing the characters in your book, do you have a cheater photo for inspiration?

No. I dont want a character from a book, mine or anyone elses, to be a reflection of a person who exists. 

My favorite book is The Stand by Stephen King, and though it became a miniseries, I could never look at the trailer, let alone watch the show. But I know what Larry, Stu, Mother Abigail, Frannie, and Harold look like, and I wouldnt want it to change.


Many people read as a form of escape and relaxation. What is your favorite way to sit back and relax?

I read every night before falling asleep as its often the only time available. But, if I had to choose a favorite, it would be a snowy day when I didnt have to be anywhere with nothing to be done. Id sit by my wood-burning stove under a fluffy blanket and while away the day with my dogs as my husband brought me hot chocolate and food at regular intervals. Id get lost in the story and finish the book just in time to fall into a restful nights sleep.


Who are your favorite current authors to read?

Elizabeth Berg, Tracey Garvis Graves, Joe Hill, and Stephen King.


What are your favorite books by others?

The Stand by Stephen King. I can read that book (and do) over and over. On the Island by Tracey Garvis Graves, and The Day I Ate Whatever I wanted by Elizabeth Berg.


Do the locations in the stories have any meaning to you?

If it’s integral to the plot, like with time travel.


Do you write in single or multiple POV?

Right now, single, but my initial stories are all written in the third person. I may revisit the approach in the future.


What do you find to be your best research tool?

The internet.


Do you write under a pen name?  Also, do you write under more than one name?

No.


What genre do you write and why is this your preference?

Contemporary romance. 

Life is hard, and escaping within the binding of a pleasant HEA helps buffer the blows.


Tell me something about yourself outside of writing. Jobs, accomplishments, family, quirky trait...what led to you being you?

I lost my parents when I was in my teens. There isnt much on earth that influences a person more. Life wasnt linear in any way, which makes the world quite tricky for a young person to navigate without adult support. Thank God I had my siblings. 

But Ive always found satisfaction in a job well done, so I played with professions to discover who I was and where I fit into a world gone wonky. 

Ive worked from retail to the food industry, and I was a surgical tech in the OR and the director of an animal rescue shelter. 

When youre going through hell, keep on moving,” and Id say thats what I did to escape.


What advice would you give to an aspiring writer?

Keep writing and do it because you love it. 

If you do it for fortune, fame, or another external reason, you’re likely to fail because the joy will be sucked out of the process.


How do you deal and process negative book reviews?

First, I examine if there is any truth in the critique; if so, I work to improve in that area. Then I remind myself that its impossible to please everyone. 

Next, I take a few moments to feel the pain of the zing and recall why the book is worthy (Psst: for those who will love it). 

Finally, I do something kind for myself, brush it off, and move on because life is too short for naysayers.


What is the most difficult part of your writing process?

Time. Life likes to fill up the agenda, and you must be diligent about making writing a priority.


What do you need in your writer’s space to keep you focused?

Silence and solitude.


What is your naughty indulgence as you are writing?

I find writing an indulgence.


If you could spend a day with another popular author, whom would you choose? And why?

Eckhart Tolle. 

I’d like to absorb his ability to be present and become enlightened. So a casual afternoon. 😊


What is your schedule like when you are writing? Do you have a favorite writing snack or drink?

I edit in the morning and write in the afternoon on a perfect day. 

A glass of water is always nearby, and I take breaks to eat. Doing one thing at a time makes it more enjoyable.


Do you listen to music when you write – what kind of music is your favorite?

I never listen to music as I write, but I love all genres except jazz and blues.


Have pets ever gotten in the way of your writing?

Im a pet sitter, so my and other peoples pets are a priority. But my dog walks, in particular, give me time to free-associate and develop new ideas or enhance those Im working on. Its a balancing act that some days I dont perfect.


What is your kryptonite as a writer? What totally puts you off your game?

Marketing.


Have you ever killed off a character that your readers loved?

Not yet.


How do you celebrate after typing THE END?

Celebrate? With the endless editing, a book is never finished at “The End.” 😊


I hope you enjoyed this interview!

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